As tsukitenshi replied, you can submit your upgraded ads in the menu under "Ads & Upgrades" and then select "Submit Upgraded Ads".
The direct link is
http://dreammails.net/pages/upgraded.phpHere is what you would need to fill out:
Ad Description:
Enter the title of the site being advertised. The only time this is shown to anyone besides yourself (the member) and me (the owner) is if the banner isn't working and the alternate text is used.
Comments:
Not required. Not shown to anyone besides myself in the ad manager.
Paid Link URL:
The URL of the site that you want to advertise. For example, if you wanted to advertise DreamMails, you would enter:
http://dreammails.net/pages/index.php?refid=yourreferralidhereThat is just an example...it would not be benefit anyone to advertise DreamMails at DreamMails as anyone clicking on that ad is already a member.
Banner URL:
The URL of the banner image. It always starts with http:// and ends with either .jpg or .gif. It can be found on the other site's referral link page.
For example:
http://my-ptr.info/dmbanners/dreammails4.gif